2. Speak the Truth

While we should be kind, we should not be cowards. The Church has definitive teaching about gender, and we should clearly and fully say the Church’s teachings on the issue. Keep in mind that speaking the truth is an act of love.

3. Know the Facts

Read what the Church has actually said about the topic, and stick to that. If you do express your opinion, make sure your friend knows it’s your opinion and not the Church’s.

Don’t feel equipt to speak on this issue? Read the document released by the Vatican (linked above) or check out these resources offered by the USCCB. 

4. Distinguish Confusion and Sin

Many people who are tempted to change their identity are genuinely confused. Don’t assume you know what’s going on interiorly.

That means we should not condemn them, but rather help them recognize who they are as loved and created by God.

5. Stay Positive

The Catholic Church’s teaching on human sexuality and identity is the most freeing and life-giving teaching out there (because it’s true)! Express that positivity in the way you speak about the topic and make sure that the other person knows you are coming from that point of view – you want to help and love people, not just tell them they’re wrong.

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